It isn’t whether you get knocked down, it’s whether you get back up. ~ Vince Lombardi
~ Susan Says: When you have a rough day caring for your loved one with cancer, or think you maybe could have handled something differently, don’t be discouraged. You are going through a new experience. It isn’t always clear what to do. Don’t be hard on yourself.
No one is perfect. Take a cleansing breath and move on and try again. Your loved one will probably understand. If he or she doesn’t seem to understand, simply explain how you feel and that this is new for you. More than likely, your loved one will understand.
The important thing, as Vince Lombardi said, is to get back up and move on. You have bigger things to be concerned about, right? If you are feeling bad, remember, you are learning from this experience. And learning is a good thing!
Hello Caregivers! I just have to tell you about some recent events! Last year we attended our local Cancer Walk Rally to raise money for those in our area who have cancer and need some help from their neighbors. The group is called SACS (Sparta Area Cancer Support). Our website hadn’t even launched when we attended in August of 2008, but we donated raffle items and purchased luminaries. We also gave a financial contribution. The ceremony was incredible! So many people from our community pulled together to put on this touching event. They honored survivors. They remembered loved ones who were no longer with us. They had a balloon release. The event lasted for about six hours. It was such an uplifting experience; we knew we had to go again this year.